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title: "Ashley Madison Discreet Dating - Reviews, Revenue and Downloads in New Zealand | Apple App Store"
description: "Ashley Madison®: Discreet Dating  Unlock desire with Ashley Madison®  -  the discreet dating app built on ethical discretion.  Available in 40+ countries. 91 million Members since 2002 (and counting)."
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# Ashley Madison Discreet Dating — New Zealand
> Casual Meet & Chat

![Ashley Madison Discreet Dating App Icon](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/Purple211/v4/94/37/c2/9437c286-ca7c-5ffc-46d2-b3f9b2c64c7c/AppIcon-0-0-1x_U007emarketing-0-7-0-85-220.png/434x0w.png)

**Developer:** [Ruby Life](https://apptail.io/developer/ruby-life-aNrb) (Canada)
**Category:** Social Networking
**Rating:** 3.6/5 (198 ratings)
**Price:** Free
**Bundle ID:** com.avidlifemedia.ashleymadison
**Store:** Apple App Store
**Country:** New Zealand
**Version:** 8.11.0 (released 2026-06-09)
**Original Release:** 2011-05-25
**Languages:** German, English, Finnish, French, Hebrew (modern), Italian, Japanese, Korean, Dutch, Norwegian Bokmål, Portuguese, Russian, Swedish, Spanish, Chinese

**App Store Link:** [Download on Apple App Store](https://apps.apple.com/nz/app/app/id359478823)
**AppTail Page:** [https://apptail.io/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating-vjH/new-zealand](https://apptail.io/app/ashley-madison-discreet-dating-vjH/new-zealand)

## Ashley Madison Discreet Dating Description
Ashley Madison®: Discreet Dating

Unlock desire with Ashley Madison®  -  the discreet dating app built on ethical discretion.

Available in 40+ countries. 91 million Members since 2002 (and counting).


YOUR DESIRES, YOUR RULES. 
Whether you’re seeking a new spark, exploring non-monogamy, or navigating the world of polyamory, Ashley Madison connects you with a community that speaks your language—all while keeping you in total control of your privacy.

PRIVACY ISN’T AN OPTION, IT’S OUR STANDARD. With Discreet Match™, Stealth Mode for iOS, private photo masking, discreet billing and more, you can navigate your desire with total anonymity. 

EVERYONE IS WELCOME
Be yourself and find what you want in a community that embraces authenticity, desire, and ethical discretion.


HOW AM WORKS 

- 100% free to download and easy to get started.

- Find matches that click using Search Filters and Interests & Desires Tags.

- Send Messages, Winks, and Private Key Requests to flirt with other Members.



DISCRETION-FIRST

- Discreet Match™ matches you with others who value privacy like you do — clearly, confidently, and discreetly.

- Photo privacy tools help protect your anonymity.

- Discreet billing and private payment options help keep your payment activity confidential*.

- Stealth Mode exclusively for iOS keeps your notifications under the radar and lets you customize their appearance.

- Regular app security updates keep your data and information protected.

- Your personal information is never sold to a third-party under any circumstances.

- We provide Trust & Safety tips to help you improve your safety while navigating Ashley Madison and other social media platforms.


CONNECT WITH CONFIDENCE

- Verify Your Profile: Build trust, boost credibility and prioritize communication with other Verified Members.

- Report a Profile: Quickly report profiles with suspicious activity or inappropriate behavior.

- Block Contacts: Take control and block profiles you don’t want to see on the app.

Your people are already here. Step into a global community where millions have already found the discreet connections they’ve been looking for.

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* To protect your privacy, the charge on your billing statement will appear as “AMDA” and not Ashley Madison unless modified by your credit card company and/or bank.

## Ashley Madison Discreet Dating Screenshots
- [Screenshot 1](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/6a/cf/a0/6acfa0c5-2771-8edd-5eaf-2022249fd95b/6-5_1.jpg/1242x2688.png)
- [Screenshot 2](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource221/v4/32/42/0f/32420fdb-2166-d304-b5d0-3fd0141b0f52/6-5_2.jpg/1242x2688.png)
- [Screenshot 3](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource221/v4/a8/bf/bc/a8bfbc5b-70bc-8463-52bf-0cd99ee4a0fb/6-5_3.jpg/1242x2688.png)
- [Screenshot 4](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/b3/4c/2b/b34c2b6e-7a31-70e2-7e4d-391f3953e0f3/6-5_4.jpg/1242x2688.png)
- [Screenshot 5](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource221/v4/93/52/5f/93525f0e-c9a5-f34f-7405-5d7438173db2/6-5_5.jpg/1242x2688.png)
- [Screenshot 6](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/31/96/31/319631f9-c1d3-abda-60ae-42ff0fd50f09/6-5_6.jpg/1242x2688.png)
- [Screenshot 7](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource221/v4/9b/92/6f/9b926ff7-65fa-92f4-fd36-83d7099ab03f/6-5_7.jpg/1242x2688.png)

## Ashley Madison Discreet Dating Rating Breakdown in New Zealand
- 5 stars: 92 (46%)
- 4 stars: 28 (14%)
- 3 stars: 24 (12%)
- 2 stars: 15 (8%)
- 1 stars: 39 (20%)

## Ashley Madison Discreet Dating Reviews in New Zealand

### *---- "concerns"
This app feels like a complete money grab 😵‍💫 rather than a legitimate platform. The interactions seem fake, as the ladies all respond with nearly identical messages, making it feel like it's either AI-driven  🤖 or just one admin 👩‍💼 managing multiple accounts. I paid twice and barely sent 10 messages before running out of coins. Each message costs about 5 coins (sometimes more), and it's frustrating because even if you're continuing a conversation with a reply, you're charged again. It would make more sense to pay for an initial message and have replies be free, but instead, every single response costs you more, making it ridiculously expensive just to maintain a conversation. Feels like a cash grab, not a genuine service. Waste of time and money.
-- Sal780, 2024-10-02

### ***** "Review"
It seems legit but to expensive to upgrade.
-- Carl69me, 2024-04-17

### *---- "Help"
So many fake accounts , I’m so scared to buy credit because hardly people reply so it would be really appreciated if you help 

Thank you
-- 7moni7, 2024-01-23

### *---- "Largely a waste of time and money"
It is difficult to tell with these things, as the unknown is just that (unknown) I find the business model discriminatory as men are charges and women are not! A consequence of this is that misleading and fake female profiles can be set up and any interaction with these is done at the expense of men as we have to pay for messages! The unknown is the male/female balance…I suspect that there is a large surplus of men on here and have never really had any joy on AM! Also the distance settings seem faulty as well! If I set it to “any location” then it brings up a limited selection of profiles from around the world but not from the larger centres of my country that are further away that the maximum specific distance setting of 300 odd km. So yeah, all in all I find AM rather frustrating!
-- Tumeke Hone Heke, 2022-06-02

### **--- "Coins"
I understand the need to make a profit but certainly can adjust the rates as you purchase into better discounts for returning customers.
-- @BBoyNeptune06, 2021-07-24

### *---- "Avoid this app at all costs"
Downloaded to try it out. Realise that even just sending a message to someone requires that you make a $100+ purchase.

I tried to delete my account, but what do you know, you can’t. You have to email them, which I have done twice now.

They also spam you with emails. Even though I have asked to have my account deleted and have unsubscribed from emails, I still get emails at least daily.

Absolutely terrible.
-- Thr33Swords, 2021-04-19

### *---- "Locked out"
My app was working  then all of a sudden i can no longer use my app. I enter login details now they dont work. Use forgot password send to my email im still waiting for the email. So trying again to download app round 2 not happy
-- Elshelby, 2020-03-09

### *---- "Such a rip-off"
What a rip-off this site is!
Their rates for messages are ridiculous, and seem to be trying to catch you out with all their little tricks (“priority messages”) around every corner.
And they only charge men for membership - talk about sexist in this day and age!
Don’t waste your money here - there are much better options out there.
-- A.A.N., 2019-11-09

### *---- "Rip off"
I received a three inch penis through this and it cummed on my eye and in my hair. The app is very expensive for mediocre dick bois that can’t talk to waman in real life. I prefer Fuckbook
-- Hungry dick daddies girl, 2019-02-10

### *---- "Save your $"
Total waste of $, just can Girl after cam girl and u need credits to even update you profile! Waste of time.
-- Stepster, 2017-12-29

### *---- "Greed"
If your looking to spend loads of money to talk to no one, then this apps for you! Lol
-- FrogManBeast, 2015-07-10

### *---- "App is a money taker"
Don't download, profiles are all fake! They want to take your credit card details!!!! Avoid!!!!!!
-- Roknmaoriboy, 2015-06-13

### ***** "Very good"
so useful, works really well, would definitely recommend!!!
-- TheCakingGirl, 2014-09-21

### *---- "Not good"
Poor softwa! Crash all the time~
-- Alex lu nz, 2013-10-31

### *---- "Rip off"
It's free to download the app, nothing more.  Min cost is $50 and up and you still don't know what's on offer until you pay. No thanks, this is not a good deal
-- jollypumper, 2012-11-02

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## Ashley Madison Discreet Dating In-App Purchases
| Item | Price |
|------|-------|
| Introductory Package | $79.99 |
| Premium Package | $129.99 |
| Ashley Madison Preferred | $29.99 |
| Elite Package | $199.99 |
| Ultimate Package | $299.99 |

## Ashley Madison Discreet Dating Store Rankings
| Chart | Country | Category | Rank |
|-------|---------|----------|------|
| Top Grossing | New Zealand | Social Networking | #9 |
| Top Grossing | Brazil | Social Networking | #17 |
| Top Grossing | Chile | Social Networking | #18 |
| Top Grossing | Portugal | Social Networking | #23 |
| Top Grossing | Canada | Social Networking | #24 |
| Top Grossing | Mexico | Social Networking | #33 |
| Top Grossing | Switzerland | Social Networking | #39 |
| Top Grossing | Czechia | Social Networking | #45 |
| Top Grossing | United Kingdom | Social Networking | #46 |
| Top Grossing | Australia | Social Networking | #47 |
| Top Grossing | Ireland | Social Networking | #50 |
| Top Grossing | South Africa | Social Networking | #54 |
| Top Grossing | United States | Social Networking | #55 |
| Top Grossing | Spain | Social Networking | #56 |
| Top Grossing | India | Social Networking | #58 |
| Top Grossing | Colombia | Social Networking | #61 |
| Top Grossing | Hong Kong SAR China | Social Networking | #62 |
| Top Free | Canada | Social Networking | #74 |
| Top Free | United States | Social Networking | #107 |
| Top Free | United Kingdom | Social Networking | #121 |
| Top Free | Argentina | Social Networking | #164 |
| Top Free | Australia | Social Networking | #182 |
| Top Free | Finland | Social Networking | #189 |
| Top Free | New Zealand | Social Networking | #197 |
| Top Free | Spain | Social Networking | #199 |
| Top Free | Belgium | Social Networking | #239 |
| Top Free | Brazil | Social Networking | #250 |
| Top Free | Chile | Social Networking | #252 |
| Top Free | South Africa | Social Networking | #253 |
| Top Free | Hong Kong SAR China | Social Networking | #266 |
| Top Free | Peru | Social Networking | #273 |
| Top Free | Mexico | Social Networking | #275 |
| Top Free | India | Social Networking | #310 |
| Top Free | Poland | Social Networking | #313 |
| Top Free | Greece | Social Networking | #337 |
| Top Free | Italy | Social Networking | #341 |
| Top Free | Taiwan | Social Networking | #358 |
| Top Free | Portugal | Social Networking | #366 |
| Top Free | France | Social Networking | #380 |
| Top Free | Germany | Social Networking | #419 |
| Top Free | Sweden | Social Networking | #444 |
| Top Free | Ireland | Social Networking | #459 |
| Top Free | Switzerland | Social Networking | #463 |
| Top Free | Norway | Social Networking | #467 |
| Top Free | Netherlands | Social Networking | #494 |

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