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title: "Olively: Anxious & Avoidant - Reviews, Revenue and Downloads in United States | Apple App Store"
description: "Olively is the attachment style app for understanding your relationship patterns through attachment theory. Learn how anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, fearful avoidant attachment, secure attac"
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# Olively: Anxious & Avoidant — United States
> Attachment Style Translator

![Olively App Icon](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/Purple211/v4/21/da/33/21da3345-b80c-7afa-f752-490459a4b99d/AppIcon-0-0-1x_U007ephone-0-1-85-220.png/434x0w.png)

**Developer:** [Yosha Ventures](https://apptail.io/developer/yosha-ventures-fKPzkb)
**Category:** Lifestyle
**Rating:** 4.7/5 (595 ratings)
**Price:** Free
**Bundle ID:** com.yoshaventures.loveglot
**Store:** Apple App Store
**Country:** United States
**Version:** 2.6.1 (released 2026-10-30)
**Original Release:** 2025-12-15
**Languages:** English, French, German, Indonesian, Japanese, Korean, Portuguese, Chinese, Spanish

**App Store Link:** [Download on Apple App Store](https://apps.apple.com/us/app/app/id6755921191)
**AppTail Page:** [https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/united-states](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/united-states)

## Olively Description
Olively is the attachment style app for understanding your relationship patterns through attachment theory. Learn how anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, fearful avoidant attachment, secure attachment, insecure attachment, and codependency patterns show up in real communication.

Take an attachment style quiz, understand your relationship patterns, learn how your attachment system shows up in texts and conflict, and practice more secure communication with tools for real conversations.

Olively helps you move from spiraling, shutdown, protest behavior, reassurance-seeking, defensiveness, mixed signals, and repeated fights toward clearer communication, healthier boundaries, repair, and earned secure attachment.

Built around attachment theory, Olively combines an attachment style quiz, partner-style insights, guided programs, a practical attachment library, message translation, text decoding, Relationship Pulse, and Spiral Support.

How Olively Helps

Attachment Style Quiz
Find your attachment style and learn how anxious, avoidant, fearful avoidant, disorganized, and secure attachment patterns show up in communication, intimacy, conflict, and repair.

Understand Your Relationship Pattern
Add your partner’s attachment style to see how your two patterns interact. Olively helps explain anxious-avoidant dynamics, reassurance loops, emotional shutdown, distancing, overthinking, and repair needs.

Translate Messages
Type what you want to say. Olively helps rewrite it for your partner’s attachment style so your message is clearer, calmer, and less likely to trigger defensiveness.

Decode Texts
Paste a message from your partner and see what your anxious, avoidant, or insecure attachment system may be hearing compared with what they may actually mean.

Relationship Pulse
Answer a few questions about what is happening and get a read on the pattern: why it feels triggering, what dynamic may be showing up, and what secure next step to try.

Spiral Support
When you are overthinking a short reply, waiting for reassurance, or afraid your partner is pulling away, Olively helps you slow down, name the trigger, and choose a more secure response.

7-Day Programs
Follow guided programs for anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, codependency, conflict repair, boundaries, reconnection, and secure relationship habits.

Attachment Library
Learn attachment theory in practical language, including anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, fearful avoidant attachment, disorganized attachment, secure attachment, emotional availability, nervous system triggers, communication patterns, and relationship repair.

Olively is for you if:

- You spiral over texts, tone, silence, or delayed replies
- You want an attachment style quiz with practical next steps
- You are healing anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, or codependency patterns
- You and your partner repeat the same fight again and again
- You want to communicate without escalating conflict
- You want to understand anxious and avoidant attachment dynamics
- You want healthier boundaries, repair, and secure communication

Many relationship fights are not only about the words being said. They are about the attachment system underneath them.

An anxious attachment style may hear rejection where none was intended. An avoidant attachment style may hear pressure or criticism in a request for closeness. Codependency patterns can make it hard to pause, set boundaries, or stop chasing reassurance. Olively helps turn those moments into clearer, calmer conversations.

Instead of asking “What should I text back?” in panic, Olively helps you understand what you are feeling, what your partner may be feeling, what could trigger conflict, and how to respond from a more secure place.

Olively uses attachment-aware AI guidance to support communication and education. It is not a replacement for therapy, diagnosis, crisis support, or professional relationship counseling.

## Olively Screenshots
- [Screenshot 1](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/05/39/bb/0539bb27-1a50-367c-5399-9c302e7f9a5f/01_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot01.png/1284x2778.png)
- [Screenshot 2](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/b3/c1/2e/b3c12e6d-ca0e-9a16-50ef-fb02865ef141/02_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot02.png/1284x2778.png)
- [Screenshot 3](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/60/51/b6/6051b6fb-b21b-84ef-3bb3-efb5e91b8eac/03_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot03.png/1284x2778.png)
- [Screenshot 4](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource221/v4/fd/d3/8b/fdd38b06-55f8-29a2-b773-e9ba8eda9a8f/04_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot04.png/1284x2778.png)
- [Screenshot 5](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/5f/ac/1b/5fac1b49-716f-4b6e-7aff-177c96bc8d9b/05_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot05.png/1284x2778.png)
- [Screenshot 6](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource221/v4/32/7a/10/327a1019-2fad-7596-dca5-067b05b2f17e/06_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot06.png/1284x2778.png)
- [Screenshot 7](https://is1-ssl.mzstatic.com/image/thumb/PurpleSource211/v4/b2/2a/85/b22a856f-191d-0154-add1-371715302c53/07_6-5_olv_ios_20261030_en-US_dira-g_shot07.png/1284x2778.png)

## Olively Rating Breakdown in United States
- 5 stars: 506 (85%)
- 4 stars: 42 (7%)
- 3 stars: 18 (3%)
- 2 stars: 5 (1%)
- 1 stars: 24 (4%)

## Olively Reviews in United States

### ****- "great app but inconsistent risk ratings"
i LOVE this app. has helped me understand what my dismissive avoidant partner means by what he says and helps me write messages about my feelings in a way he wouldn’t take it wrong. so useful that i even purchased the subscription. only thing i noticed and should probably be taken a look at is the risk/spiral ratings. for example, i copy and paste a message my partner sends me and it gives me a spiral rating and gives me a response. if i copy and paste that message again, gives me a different spiral rating and a different message to respond. Also, if i put the response the app gave me into translate, for some reason it shows me a high risk rating and gives me a different response to respond to. then i continued to put the new responses the app gives me back into translate and continues to give me high risk ratings and generates new responses. the cycle keeps going. so yea, great app, just this inconsistency should be looked at.
-- privacy is ideal, 2026-03-13

### *---- "$$"
it was going good til i had to pay, no mention of payment until after my 10 min quiz waste of time
-- Brookey Boo145, 2026-03-13

### ***** "Like it so far"
Saw this app from tikok. Lowkey kinda helps me to run my messages through the translator
-- PaytonJZ, 2026-02-16

### ***** "Awesome app for any relationship"
Great app for anyone in any relationship phase, even a long term stable one!
-- TrevorB22, 2026-02-07

### ***** "Much better after update"
Now that I can add context before translating/decoding messages, the app is a lot more useful. Before I would try to decode his message, but the app didn’t take into account what I said before. Really love it now!
-- ashley_az, 2026-02-02

### ***** "Worth it"
I love the practical examples and scenarios they give. This is a very helpful app
-- Alexander Mendel, 2026-01-25

### ***** "Great tool for couple communication"
My wife and I have opposite attachment styles and have experienced huge ongoing communication issues. This app has helped us nip so many arguments in the bud by helping us communicate in a way that the other understands. Highly recommended for spouses/couples with communication issues.
-- Helping save my marriage, 2026-01-25

### ***** "Worth every penny."
I’m using this app to hopefully salvage my chaotic 3 year marriage. She is anxious and I’m avoidant dismissive, you know how that goes..  the app is great so far, and we seem to be doing better already but only time will tell.  Fingers crossed.
-- MrLinco1n, 2026-01-25

### *---- "Paywall"
You have to pay to use the app.
-- RollerFrog, 2026-01-22

### *---- "Expensive AI Gen"
I can just as easily plug all this info into ANY other AI and ask it to translate what I’d like to say. This is not specific to this app and they do not state until the very end of sign up that there is no free edition. Only paid. For $8/month. DeepSeek is free.
-- EepyAJ03, 2026-01-22

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## Olively In-App Purchases
| Item | Price |
|------|-------|
| Olively Annual | $39.99 |
| Olively Weekly | $4.99 |
| olively Pro | $12.99 |

## Olively Store Rankings
| Chart | Country | Category | Rank |
|-------|---------|----------|------|
| Top Free | Indonesia | Lifestyle | #155 |



## Olively Available In
- [United States](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/united-states)
- [Canada](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/canada)
- [Australia](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/australia)
- [Japan](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/japan)
- [Indonesia](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/indonesia)
- [Germany](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/germany)
- [France](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/france)
- [Taiwan](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/taiwan)
- [Switzerland](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/switzerland)
- [New Zealand](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/new-zealand)
- [South Korea](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/south-korea)
- [Vietnam](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/vietnam)
- [Hong Kong SAR China](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/hong-kong)
- [Italy](https://apptail.io/app/olively-anxious-avoidant-naUx/italy)
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