Diem: Big Group Chat Energy

Welcome to Diem! We’re building the front door to “girl internet.”
Diem is a social-network-meets-search-engine designed for girls, women, and gender-expansive people. Our platform is full of collective knowledge from people all over the world. In Diem you can start conversations, discover a network of communities, connect over shared experiences, browse trending topics, search with Diem AI, and find answers to anything life throws at you. “How do I get over a friend breakup? What’s the best way to negotiate salary? My boyfriend follows models on Instagram—is that a red flag?” Your fellow Diemers are here to help.
Joining Diem means showing up with no judgment, and immersing yourself in the candid, funny, authentic, important, frenetic, supportive, outrageous, honest, and wholesome conversations of other Diemers, which span everything from birth control to friendship, sexuality to pop culture, parenting to relationships, money to reproductive health, career to books, and so much more. Diem is the best and biggest group chat you’ve ever been a part of. It’s giving… 1am girls bathroom energy.
We are starting to build out topic-based communities, we call these sub-feeds Spaces. Here's a few:
- BSA (Big Sis Advice): sometimes you just need sisterly advice!
- ITN (Is this normal…): we’ve all been there... searching the internet wondering if our experiences are “normal.”
- AMA (Ask Me Anything): wisdom you want to share? Start an AMA!
- NJP (No Judgment Pls): for all those questions you’re worried others will judge you for in the outside world.
- Hidden History: this is a Space to co-write underrepresented stories back into history.
- SOS: when you need the girls, ASAP!
Want us to create a new Space or run one yourself? Email us: [email protected]
What can we promise you’ll find in Diem?
Thousands of authentic conversations
From awkward sex questions to wholesome big sisterly advice or navigating life’s highs and lows, Diem is full of the collective knowledge of girls, women, and gender-expansive people all over the world. There’s no judgment here and you’ll feel that very quickly. Share your story and connect with new Diem friends.
Diem AI-powered search
Ask Diem AI, our AI-powered search tool, your questions! You can think of Diem AI as your most knowledgeable Virgo “big sister” who lives in your back pocket. Diem AI draws from across the internet and the collective wisdom of Diemers to generate you a speedy answer. It will also deliver previous, related conversations as your search results. You can dive in to these existing community perspectives OR you can post your search to the community feed too!
Safety First
Safety & moderation are our top priority at Diem. See something, say something! We have distributed moderation—if you report something, we review it, ensuring there’s no violation of the community culture.
Post anonymously or under a pseudonym
We think of the anonymous feature as a confidence booster. Sometimes posting ‘taboo’ questions or personal stories publicly can be nerve-wracking, so this feature is designed to make you feel more comfortable while getting the advice you need.
Upvoting
See a post or response you want to give some love to, click to “heart” it!
Creating Posts
If you have a longer story or advice to offer (attn: all wannabe advice columnists!) you can click “Create Post” and type out all your stories or wisdom. These posts will live in the related topic forums, people will be able to comment on these posts too.
We’re very early in our journey to build Diem into the social search engine and ‘front door’ to the girl internet (aka the place we’ve all been dreaming of)! If you have any problems, feedback, or ideas for the app, get support at [email protected] and our small team will get back to you ASAP.
Happy gossiping!
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