GRateDate

With GRateDate you can rate, track, evaluate, and compare dates using questions designed by psychologists. Chose better and date smarter.
GRateDate is a stand-alone app that will help you make better dating choices based on your evaluations and input. The data you enter is secure, private, and for your eyes only. Our expert psychologists have generated a set of basic questions so you can track your dating history, compare those you date, and figure out your dating patterns. Using GRateDate is easy, fast, fun, and effective. Don't waste time dating the wrong people!
GRateDate helps you:
- Evaluate and compare the people you date and your interactions with them (in person, texts/SMS, emails, and phone calls).
- Assess the positive/negative behaviors and values of your dates using uppers, downers, and red flags.
- Understand your dating patterns and history, so you can make better relationship choices.
- Journal about the people you date and keep it all straight.
- Save time and money by ending dates that don’t truly meet your needs.
- Identify your dating priorities and if your goals are being met.
- Be the BOSS of your dating!

GRateDate is the very first psychology-based app to measure compatibility AFTER your dating activity. Singles and those in a relationship spend a lot of time evaluating who to go out with BEFORE a date. But typically, don’t spend time really evaluating the RESULT of the date. Is THIS person you met really a good fit for YOU? Trust us, we can help you figure it out.
GRateDate is for EVERYONE — Whether you are single and seeking casual relationships, looking for something more serious, or in a committed relationship, everyone can use GRateDate. The flexible rating system helps you identify core positive and negative qualities in your dates. By analyzing these patterns, you can decide if someone is worth seeing and lay the right foundation for your relationship. Choose better and date smarter.
RATE YOUR DATING ACTIVITY
Rate each dating activity (in person date, texting/SMS, email exchange, or phone call) using the seven core, psychologically curated questions. By rating your date 0-5 (select no emoji to give a rating of 0), they get an objective score that you can track over time.
DATING UPPERS AND DOWNERS
Rate your dates thumbs up or down on 21 positive and 16 negative dating behaviors, values, or traits. Reflect on why you choose certain uppers and not others. Does the person you date need a certain number of uppers to be worth your time? How many downers are acceptable?
RED FLAGS
Red flags are persistent, extreme behaviors or traits that are generally undesirable and could indicate major relationship issues. Decide on how many red flags are acceptable to you. Are some acceptable and others not? Think about whether you have a pattern of relationships with too many red flags?
JOURNALING AND KEEPING TRACK
Use the notes/journal section to write down facts or notes about the people you date. For example, you can remember if your date is a dog lover, only talked about themselves, or is allergic to pizza. Journaling can help you expand and get into more detail on what is working or not working in the relationship.
COMPARE DATES
Once you have rated two or more different dates you can see how the ratings compare. How do your dates stack up? Are there glaring or subtle differences? Who should you continue with?
ANALYZE THE TRENDS
The analysis screen shows you how a person is trending and gives you an overall summary of that date’s score, uppers, downers, and red flags.
IDENTIFY YOUR DATING GOALS
You have unique dating goals. Identify what they are and see if your dates are meeting your goals and living up to your expectations. You can add more goals and be more specific in the journaling section.
FEEDBACK
We want your feedback and we want this app to work for you! You can provide it via the feedback button on the home screen of the app.