HER: Lesbian LGBTQ Dating

Was a good app. Now too many ads ruin it. Every time I log in its some crappy ad about a video game.

This app was ok when it first came out aside from the scammers. Now the app is full of men and couples seeking a threesome. They used to allow you to report men and couples but no longer, it’s open season now… We are never allowed to have safe spaces free of biological men, even when we are not attracted to them and it’s despicable. They need to change the name and marketing so we are not disappointed when we join. Trans men and trans women are fine, but biological men that identify as male or couples hunting for lesbians should not be allowed to be here. Be aware that this is NOT a safe space for lgbt women anymore. It’s also very expensive now and it limits how many swipes you can do per day, you have to pay them to even swipe, not worth it whatsoever.

There are minors on this app. Why?

You can't sort by looking for a relationship, hookup, monogamous or poly, age, or even goofy things like astrology sign or if they like anime, without paying. Almost every single person seems to use it as femme grindr. No hate, but i was hoping for a Queer dating app for dating not Craigslist personals. I have to swipe for no kidding about twenty minutes or more to find One Person who wants something serious, just for them to have another deal breaker. I can't believe how unusable this is. I know every dating app just wants your money, but this is ridiculous. That's is no where to go for queer people who want a relationship, There are no safe spaces. I'm very disappointed. It wasn't always like this, i used her a few years ago fine. I wish they just let you use a FEW incredibly basic features for free. I mean GOD, i Do not want an Eighteen Year old swiping on me, im 30, why is this a thing. Please let me have basic filters. This is ridiculous.

As a premium member on this app, I would think that it would give a 5 star status, it doesn’t! I see what other women post in the chat rooms on this app and they only flag certain ppl. If you’re into young chicks this is the app. That’s all that’s on there young girls looking to explore their sexuality. As much as they charge for this app I would think it would be better than this. It’s always and I MEAN ALWAYS GLITCHING. I’ll be glad when my subscription is up. There is no privacy because they are monitoring inboxes. They pick and choose what messages they want to intercept especially if someone is wanting to be a sugar momma. I thought I was going to enjoy this app but this will be an app I will NEVER JOIN. If I could get a refund I would definitely ask for one.

This app crashes and lags from time to time, please fix it.

I’m not sure why these apps continue to allow straight cis men to label themselves as “lesbian.” It’s disgusting and disrespectful. Men get to infiltrate and infect everything so hot take: keep these apps a safe space for women. We are so so so tired.

The constant ads and scam messages are insane for an app that’s ranked so highly. They only give you a handful of swipes a day, so good luck finding a real person to even talk to. Constant spam about upgrading your account. $30 a month is insane for a dating app. I swear the app is a grift to get money off a lonely, marginalized community. Seriously though, stick with hinge.

it gives so much ads and you have to pay to see who liked you and they limit ur swipes💀 and if u wanna see who liked u or anything like that then you have to pay but naw they set a timer for like forever to let u see ts or u have to pay. i like that they have you provide a lot of info abt urself but other than that everything else is js annoying

There are so many cisgender heterosexual men and couples on this app. Decided to give the app a shot again since my New Year’s resolution is to actually put in effort to make a romantic partner, and I am left very disappointed. I stopped using this app at the beginning of this year because it was frustrating seeing so many couples looking for a third or a partnered woman looking to have a fling. On top of that, there are clearly men who have pictures of themselves and put in their bio that they are cisgender heterosexual men. I saw some reviews upset about the trans representation which I have no issue with since they deserve a safe space too to find a partner. However, it’s so irritating having an app that’s supposed to be for women who like women and being bombarded with cisgender MEN. Turned into another tinder pretty much which has fell off so hard if you are wlw. HER yall need to do better.